A guy I dated from 2011 to 2018 is currently mad. ~ Lady Narrate the cause of the madness

 

A Lady need help after her Ex went mad because of negligence and wiseness. 

 I don’t know where he is now but after he went mad in 2019, I saw him in 2021. His state was very bad, I pitied him and wanted to undo the ritual but it didn’t work till I gave up. I saw him again recently, around Mataheko and I haven’t been myself since. I just want to undo the curs3 and let him be, at least he has had enough. Can I get any help here?

This is it, I was only 19 years old when he started dating me. I was just done with BECE at that time. He was about five years older but he claimed to love me dearly and wanted to help me further my education and marry me. I gave him a chance and in less than a month, he took my virginity. The following month, I was already pregnant and did my first abortion. I went to the SHS without his help, when the time was due, he said he didn’t have money but my parents were actually capable of doing everything, they didn’t even know I had a boyfriend so I didn’t care. 

By year two, I had devised ways of sneaking from school and coming to spend time with this guy. I got pregnant thrice in SHS and of course, I removed all. He made sure I did that anytime it happened. It became normal to me, though painful. He ate my provisions mostly and still didn’t use to give me money but rather take mine.

I completed SHS and he encouraged me to start teaching in a private school and save some money for school. While I was teaching, he was always borrowing money from me and never paying. AT some point, I realized I was doing a useless work so I stopped giving him money and he started complaining so I gave him once a while. I went in for family planning at a young age because of him. HE sl3pt with me almost every day, even when I am on my period sometimes. 

Then he suggested I hold on with going to school so we marry. He asked for my support so I added another job which I go to do after school. I also sold water on weekends. We bought things and made sure his room was attractive. After some time, I started asking him to come and see my parents but he always ignored. All these while, I either catch him with other ladies or see messages on his phone, he had a yam phone around 2015/16 there about. (We’re on IG: loveandpillsgh)

2017, he locked me out of his life. He dumped me and warned me not to come closer to him again, his reason was that his parents don’t want him to marry an ewe. I was hurt, I cried and almost died my life but I was able to handle the pain and live on. Later same year, after about 5 months, he came back. He begged for a comeback, and claimed he wanted to marry me that he wouldn’t let his parents’ decision affect us. Looking at how much money and energy I had invested and how deep I loved him, I foolishly went back. I had removed the family planning so I quickly got pregnant again and again, I had to terminate it. I was still wasting my money on him, hoping we will marry but somewhere 2018, I went to see him and a woman was there. He told the woman I was his ex and that we are over. He had actually gone to do knocking on the lady, the lady showed me the list and asked me to leave her man alone. 

Days later, he called me to emphasize on the fact that we were over and asked me to stay away that he was getting married. I cried, wondering what I had done. He couldn’t even tell me what I had done. 

Bro Kay, out of pain, I went straight to see a medicine man whom I escorted my mother and father to, when my father stepped on something at his workplace and almost d!ed in 2015. The man gave me something to pour at his doorstep. I went there very early and poured the thing and left. In fact, I left and went to stay with my elderly brother, I didn’t care if the thing worked or not until I saw the guy in 2021 mad. I had painfully moved on. I cried when I saw him and felt the need to forgive him. I went to see the man and he took some items and assured me that he will undo the course. (IG: loveandpillsgh)

I forgot about it and moved on, thinking the guy had recovered but I saw him recently around Mataheko. I stay in the volta region; I teach there in the government sector but I came to Accra to visit my brother when I saw him. I was surprised he was still m@d. So I went to see the man who did the thing but he wasn’t there. I learnt he went back to his hometown in 2022.

 I don’t know what to do. I am still single, no husband nor kids. This guy has has somehow ru!ned my life but I want to let things go entirely. So I need help here to undo what I have done. If there is anyone here, this is my story and what I did. I don’t know where the guy is, I am back in the Volta region as well but I can make time to see anyone who can help me undo the m@dness. I just want to free him, so help me.